Chesed is looking for ways to make your spouse happy.

Ask yourself: “What can I do today to make my partner happy?” And do it.

Do something that your spouse will never know about. Do it just because you love and care about your spouse. Not for reciprocation or out of guilt or obligation. Just because you want to make a tiny part of their life easier or better.

Surprise your spouse with something unexpected. Out of nowhere. Make sure the surprise is about your spouse and not about you.