Gevurah is saying no or yes at the right time.

Every choice you make is like a seesaw; when you say ‘yes’ to one thing, you are saying ‘no’ to another. For example, if you are saying ‘yes’ to helping someone, you are saying ‘no’ to using that time for yourself. If you are saying ‘yes’ to working more hours, you are saying ‘no’ to spending that time at home with your family.

Sometimes, ‘no’ is the best answer. Hearing a ‘no’ may be hard, and so sometimes it is hard to say ‘no’. But sometimes it is what needs to be said in the circumstances. Think: budgets, schedules, balanced life.