Put your marriage first. Adjust & accommodate.
When your marriage is a priority, you do whatever it takes. You adjust and accommodate as needed.
Accommodating is not an act of weakness; it demonstrates that you care for someone – beyond yourself. It is about seeing that the other person has just as much right to be happy with the result as you do.
Accommodating doesn’t mean that you are wrong and someone is right. It only means that you value your relationship more than your ego.