COMMIT: Committing to marriage

I feel very strongly drawn to my date, but some things bother me.

Someone may be “stuck”. While they are dating someone they really like and get along with excellently, they are struggling with the idea of proposing because some things bother them. It may seem obvious that it is out of the question to commit to marrying someone you still have doubts about. Would that not lead […]

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I am looking for my soulmate; how do I know when I have found it?

Most people are looking for a special resonance between themselves and the person they choose to marry. They want to have that intangible sense that they have found “their other half.” What this is really about is a desire to reach a level of mutual acceptance and appreciation that is both thrilling and liberating. Most

I am looking for my soulmate; how do I know when I have found it? Read More »

I am looking for my soulmate; how do I know when I have found it?

Most people are looking for a special resonance between themselves and the person they choose to marry. They want to have that intangible sense that they have found “their other half.” What this is really about is a desire to reach a level of mutual acceptance and appreciation that is both thrilling and liberating. Most

I am looking for my soulmate; how do I know when I have found it? Read More »

I feel very strongly drawn to my date, but some things bother me.

Someone may be “stuck”. While they are dating someone they really like and get along with excellently, they are struggling with the idea of proposing because some things bother them. It may seem obvious that it is out of the question to commit to marrying someone you still have doubts about. Would that not lead

I feel very strongly drawn to my date, but some things bother me. Read More »

“I like the person I’m dating, but I find other people much prettier/smarter.”

This bothers her and plants seeds of doubt in her mind about whether she made the right choice. Being confronted by jarring feelings of self-doubt can be quite debilitating and painful.  This can happen to anyone, as there will always be someone superior in one or more dimensions to the person we are dating. The

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Are you afraid of getting close?

Are you fine dating until the point where the dating turns “serious?” As soon as you sense that you have crossed over into “commitment territory,” all kinds of issues come to the fore and not from the most positive perspective? You most likely consider this rethinking and reevaluating completely understandable, as you have now got

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I am looking for my soulmate; how do I know when I have found it?

When people speak about finding their soulmate, they generally mean one of two things. For some people it means looking for someone with whom they can have a deeper connection. Others, though, are searching for someone who can be their “everything” – and that can become a problem.
That person is not your soulmate because you are identical in every way, but because when together both of your souls thrive and flourish.

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“I like the person I am dating, but I find other people much prettier/smarter.”

Sometimes, a man sees a woman that he finds particularly attractive and cannot help himself comparing her more favorably to the woman he is dating or is married to. It is important that he take a broader view and recognize that it is highly unlikely that it can become a successful marriage.

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