July 2014

If looks are important to you, then looks are important to you.

OK, we all are human. And some of us have strong desires for some things that others might call superficial – like beauty and appearance. It may not be the best part of who you are, but it is indeed a part of who you are.  And if that is who you are and those are your […]

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A marriage is only as healthy as the least healthy person

No marriage can ever be healthier than the emotional health of the least healthy partner. What is emotional health?  A well-constructed sense of self.   It means knowing yourself well and feeling good about yourself. Marriage doesn’t make you feel better about yourself. If someone is a negative, unhappy person before marriage,  they will be

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What is Hamshachas HaLev? And how do I know if I am feeling that?

We love the person who helps us feel good about ourselves. It is crucial to marry someone who makes you feel comfortable about being you.  Someone who appreciates you so much that you begin appreciating yourself more.  In an authentic way. Not just flattery. Someone who notices the ‘you’ in you. And you want to marry someone

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The difference between Personality & Character. Its important to know the difference

Leah is fun to be with, great sense of humor, and knows how to laugh through the challenges that come her way. She’s confident and super friendly and has lots of friends. But what is she really like? Is she reliable and responsible? Does she have integrity? Is she kind?  What does she feel is

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