by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institute The ‘research stage’. What to find out? What are you trying to learn about the prospective shiduch? In no particular order: A little about what he is doing now. His values. His hashkafa. Some about his family and upbringing. Personality. Maturity. Disposition. How he envisions his life, […]
Month: June 2014
Is silence on a date always awkward?
Conversation moves along nicely. And then there’s silence. Awkward! Or is it? Silence doesn’t always mean that you have nothing to say to each other. Remember, it’s only silence. It’s your own thoughts and feelings about that silence that might make it awkward. It’s only awkward if you think it is awkward. If you are […]
Anyone can suggest a shiduch
by Devora Krasnianski, founder of Adai Ad Institutev Anyone can suggest a shiduch. Really. You know 2 people and you think that they might be compatible. Then you can go ahead and suggest it. But too often people just don’t. Why is that? After an unscientific survey, it seems that too many people are afraid that […]