In these stressful times, make sure to schedule some time for your own self-care. It is important to strike a healthy balance between taking care of only yourself (selfish) and always taking care of others (selfless). Tal Ben Shahar calls this ‘self full”. By dedicating time to nurture your own happiness and well-being, you equip […]
Month: October 2023
Shabbos: A news detox to restore balance.
This Shabbos, as you revel in the beauty of the day and detach from the endless cycle of scrolling and news, take a moment to reflect. Notice if you are feeling somewhat calmer, somewhat more rested, and experiencing somewhat deeper connections with Hashem and those around you. Tune into how you are feeling during this […]
Create your stress-relief toolkit.
📌 In today’s turbulent world, having a personal stress-relief toolkit is more vital than ever. The constant chaos (and now, the horrific news from Israel and around the world) can often cloud our judgment and make it challenging to think clearly about what can help us relax. So, it is worthwhile to take a few […]
It’s OK to have different responses to tough situations.
In challenging times, people react based on their unique blend of fears, interests, responsibilities, and experiences (FIRE). Recognize that everyone copes differently, and that’s perfectly fine. The key is to validate and empathize with their perspective rather than judging or belittling them. Let them have their own reactions. Have conversations – without judgment but with […]
Staying hydrated can ease stress.
Tough times now. A cocktail of emotions – fear, despair, pride, sadness, anger, hope, anxiety. While all these feelings are normal, the stressful ones can take a toll on our psychological, mental, and even physical well-being. Staying hydrated is a vital aspect of self-care during these times. It’s easy to do, and it can truly […]
Maybe they really don’t have bad intentions.
Too often, we leap to conclusions about someone’s intentions, and our assumptions aren’t always accurate. We tend to interpret their intentions based on how their actions impacted us. If we feel hurt, we assume they intended to hurt us. If we’re embarrassed, we believe they intended to embarrass us. This inclination to assume the worst […]