You never know until you ask. It’s a simple truth that holds tremendous power. Whether it’s asking for an opportunity, seeking clarification, or expressing your needs, taking the initiative to ask opens doors you never thought possible. Sure, you might face rejection or receive a “no,” but the act of asking itself is a valuable […]
Month: May 2023
Empower Yourself: Learn Something New
Learning something new can have a significant positive impact on our mental health and overall well-being. It can keep our mind sharp and active, prevent cognitive decline, and increase our sense of fulfillment and self-esteem. Taking the time to learn something new can also provide a welcome distraction from the stresses of daily life and […]
Talk Together about Malchus in your Marriage [part 6/6]
Ask your spouse: “What is something I do that helps you see that I prioritize you?” Be brave, ask for insight and feedback: “What is another way that I can help you feel like the royalty that you are?”
First comes courage, then comes confidence.
Waiting for confidence to magically appear before taking action? It doesn’t work that way! Confidence comes from experience and a track record of actually doing things. First comes courage, then the confidence. Instead of waiting for the confidence, we need to tap into our courage – to get started. Then, step by step, we’ll build […]
Reflections about Malchus in your Marriage [part 5/6]
How do you act with Malchus in your marriage? 1. Leadership Style? Does your leadership style come with honor, respect, and best interest of the marriage and family? Are your priorities healthy for your marriage? 2. Mutuality? In your marriage, do you impose your authority? Do you make room for your spouse? Do you help […]
Integrating Malchus into your Life #3 [part 4/6]
Take initiative and start the change in your relationship. Someone has to start. If you want improvement in the relationship, then just start. Your spouse will follow shortly (at least, spouses usually do).
Integrating Malchus into your Life #2 [part 3/6]
Consider your spouse when you make plans. Often, your plans can impact others in your sphere, particularly your spouse Consider how your plans may impact them Will they be inconvenienced, surprised, worried, or unprepared? As possible, include your spouse in the planning as early in the process Be flexible with your plans and adapt as […]
Integrating Malchus into your Life #1 [part 2/6]
Stick up for your spouse. Your spouse wants to feel that you have their back. That you’d stick up for them in front of your parents and family. And their family. As a married couple, you should put up a united front to hold each other’s dignity to the utmost. Defend your spouse. Call out […]
Expressions of Malchus [part 1/6]
Literal definition: Kingship. In other words: Leadership. Nobility. Aristocracy. Dignity. Authority, Power. Royalty. Speech. Expressions of Malchus: Malchus is about embodying leadership through your words, behavior, and attitude in all aspects of your life. It involves actualizing goals and bringing dreams into reality with dignity, nobility, and regality. To be an effective leader, your actions […]
Talk Together about Yesod in your Marriage [part 6/6]
Ask your spouse: “What is one way that we bond and feel connected? What else can we do in that area to enhance that?” Be brave, ask for insight and feedback: “What is one area of communication that I can improve? Can you please share some examples of how you would like me to communicate […]