What to share… when to share … how to share… Questions milling around in any dater’s head. The old advice, “You can never say the wrong thing to the right person” doesn’t really apply in our shidduch system. For whatever reasons. To some degree, it is not so much about when to share, but with […]
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To really listen to someone is truly a sign of respect. A philosophical thinker once said: “Listening – not imitation – may be the sincerest form of flattery.” This type of real listening is not as simple as just being part of the conversation and allowing her to talk. It’s about really trying to understand her
Conversation moves along nicely. And then there’s silence. Awkward! Or is it? Silence doesn’t always mean that you have nothing to say to each other. Remember, it’s only silence. It’s your own thoughts and feelings about that silence that might make it awkward. It’s only awkward if you think it is awkward. If you are
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