ACQUAINT: Getting to know each other

The Five Fundamentals – The factors most important to look for in a spouse.

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The five most important traits affecting relationships are: Emotional stability/Low neuroticism – Agitation, anger, irritation, hostility, touchiness, defensiveness Agreeableness – Degree of niceness and friendliness Conscientiousness – Making an effort for the relationship, having determination and not being fickle Openness – Willingness to share, to listen, to be generous Extroversion – How outgoing and loud a person is, how fun-loving […]

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“I like the person I am dating, but I find other people much prettier/smarter.”

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This bothers her and plants seeds of doubt in her mind about whether she made the right choice. Being confronted by jarring feelings of self-doubt can be quite debilitating and painful. This can happen to anyone, as there will always be someone superior in one or more dimensions to the person we are dating. The

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Be wary of judging the shidduch by how much you enjoy the date.

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Many people don’t – and won’t – enjoy dating. In theory, dating is this exhilarating experience. We get to meet a lovely person and spend a really nice evening getting to know them. What’s not to like? This, sadly, is not how it feels for many people. Perhaps they find opening up to a new

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Why the first few dates are so important.

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A good number of people could struggle with the very first dates. They tend to be those who are less adept at social interaction and find the early process of getting to know someone rather difficult. Where the problem is most challenging is for people who are not the most articulate or strong communicators. During

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The Five Fundamentals – The factors most important to look for in a spouse.

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The five most important traits affecting relationships are: Emotional stability/Low neuroticism – Agitation, anger, irritation, hostility, touchiness, defensiveness Agreeableness – Degree of niceness and friendliness Conscientiousness – Making an effort for the relationship, having determination and not being fickle Openness – Willingness to share, to listen, to be generous Extroversion – How outgoing and loud a person is, how fun-loving

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The Five Fundamentals – The factors most important to look for in a spouse.

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The five most important traits affecting relationships are: Emotional stability/Low neuroticism – Agitation, anger, irritation, hostility, touchiness, defensiveness Agreeableness – Degree of niceness and friendliness Conscientiousness – Making an effort for the relationship, having determination and not being fickle Openness – Willingness to share, to listen, to be generous Extroversion – How outgoing and loud a person is, how fun-loving

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Recognizing narcissistic tendencies.

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Some people tend towards selflessness. Others are naturally more selfish; the needs of others are less important to them. Some may not warm to such a character, and that is fine too. While objectively selflessness is a moral virtue, no one has every virtue and everyone is still capable of having a normal relationship. However,

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Do I have to tell my date problematic things I have done in the past?

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If nothing else, dating is about honesty. There are several important reasons for this. The main element of dating is “mutual self-disclosure,” whereby each party progressively shares and reveals more about themselves. Dating is also about being yourself and letting go, rather than anxiously screening everything you say. Marriage is based on trust, and hiding

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The person has a psychological illness – should I consider it?

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Psychological problems can cause enormous difficulties in a relationship, but there is also excessive fear and confusion around the issue. Just because someone is diagnosed with a mental disorder does not mean they can’t be in a normal, happy and very functional relationship.You may miss a chance to be with an amazing person in an

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