Embrace the correction as a gift. Your response to the correction should reflect that you are grateful for them sharing with you. Keep it short; admit the mistake and thank them for helping. Do not try to rationalize your point of view or defend yourself. This shows your willingness to take in other perspectives and […]
Words to Use: “Thanks for correcting me, I didn’t realize that.” Read More »
When you try to correct your spouse (or suggest a change), you are using up some of those goodwill credits in your relationship. Even if you say it with love and concern only for them. Nobody likes to be called out on their mistakes or failures, or even more so, on things they really can’t
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Counterproductive thoughts are ones that distract you from your task and drain your motivation. It happens from time to time. The skill of Real-Time Resilience (RTR) is designed to obliterate these counterproductive thoughts to get back in the game. RTR can help you lower anxiety, anger, or other strong emotions enough so that one can
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3 Conversations you might have this week What could we do to simplify our lives? What could we subtract? What are some examples when your gut was right? When you followed your initial instinct? When you just knew you shouldn’t do something, yet you did it, and your initial instinct was correct? If you were
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