When you are married for a while, you have the advantage of common experiences, you know what makes each other tick. You have a sense of what is their objective in this interaction. What it is they really need from you in this moment. (Yeah, sometimes, you’ll get it wrong, but if you were paying […]
You know what makes each other tick. Use that to make life better for your spouse. Read More »
Spills happen. And once they have happened, they have already happened. Yes, there’s a mess and maybe even a broken glass. But there’s no use crying or screaming about the spilled milk (or honey). You can just clean it up and move on. Or even laugh. Cuz when we make mistakes, adding insult or grief
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During the Peaceful & Joyous Yom Tov conference call, Velvel & Estie Lipskier shared the importance of having discussions before Yom Tov to prepare and plan for all aspects of Yom Tov so things run smoothly. Yom Tov is not one of those things that you can ‘just play it by ear’. Inspired by that
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3 Conversations you might have this week What might you think about during the auspicious time of shofar blowing? What will you include in your prayers for the world this Rosh Hashanah? What are some details (logistics) that you would like to be clear on this Rosh Hashanah – guests, tefillah times, minhagim, children’s schedules,
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In a blink of an eye, everything can change. Live fully. Live consciously. Make time for what matters most.Laugh out loud.Appreciate your loved ones. Tell them.Celebrate what and who you have in your life.Forgive and let go.Do what matters most to you.Drop the drama.Make someone feel good. –What would you add to this list?
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Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Velvel & Estie Lipskier about Shalom Bayis tools and mindsets for a peaceful and joyful Yom Tov.
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If you want to change and show up differently in the world, you definitely can make that growth step. It may not be easy, but it is possible. Every day, every moment is a new opportunity to be the person you want to be. You don’t have to remain stuck with the way you are
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These words are sarcastic, condescending and they also have the connotation that you want to evade your responsibility in the situation. It is basically saying that you don’t want to deal with the matter, and that you think that the other person is unreasonable in expecting that you can help. By saying this, not only
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Good and bad can happen simultaneously. Even in the same event. So much is in our perspective. The bad thing is still hard – loss of job, accidents, illness – those are real. And they are hard. At the same time, there is goodness. The care and concern of those around you. The sunrise as
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Devora Krasnianski of Adai Ad talks with Rabbi Eliyahu Prero, a financial coach at Mesila about how to navigate financial issues as a team. Rabbi Prero shares some Dos and Don’ts of working through financial stress.
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