[Dating Etiquette]
Etiquette is based on common courtesy of menchlichkeit and modern Western society that people living in America have come to expect.
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November 2020
[Are You Ready for Marriage?]
If you are not ready to get married then you are not ready to date.
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[Who to Talk to during Dating Process]
All people who are dating for shiduchim – no matter how many people they have dated – ought to have someone “outside” their usual circles with whom they can talk about this particular dating experience.
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[You’ll Need to be Vulnerable]
In order to move along in the dating, you will need to be vulnerable at some point. Vulnerability is not weakness; it’s the courage to show up and be seen as you are.
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Adai Ad’s Weekly 3-2-1 [11/08/2020]
3 Conversations you might have this week Where have we been ‘penny wise, pound foolish’? What do you consider a successful life? What is your idea of a relaxing winter vacation? 2 Quotes to inspire you “Everything you ever wanted is on the other side of fear.” – George Addai “Once you will need less,
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Plan your ‘Table Talk’
Table Talk is the informal conversation carried on at meals. Some topics are great fun with everyone having something to contribute and learn from and with each other. Others can make some people uncomfortable. You can plan your Table Talk. Prepare some discussion starters that you anticipate will bring lively conversations. These can be related
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Make a list of what can help you de-stress
This is one list worth making. When you are in a stressed moment, you may not have the headspace to think about what might hep you de-stress, in a healthy way. Also, your spouse and those around you don’t know what you might need. Take the time to work on a list. Think about what
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Words to Use: “I see it differently”
There are times when you will view a situation from your individual perspectives. Sometimes, it is not important enough to even bring it up. If you feel that you want to talk about, it is better to use the phrase “I see it differently…” rather than “I disagree”. Essentially, they are saying the same thing.
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Notice what didn’t go wrong today
We humans are wired (nurture or nature?) to notice the negative. A negative bias. We take the normal for granted. Negative experiences make it to our long-term memory faster than the more neutral or positive ones. But positive memories are the cornerstone to our happiness and even our identity. Therefore, it is worthwhile to do
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Adai Ad’s Weekly 3-2-1 [11/01/2020]
3 Conversations you might have this week What is your definition of friendship in a marriage? What do you consider is an important modern invention? What is a situation that you handled quite well, that you are proud of? What is a situation you wish you had handled differently? 2 Quotes to inspire you “The
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