1 About Dating

It’s not about the condition, it is about the person who happens to have a condition.

To really get to know someone, you have to stop being self conscious and be more other conscious.

Etiquette is based on common courtesy of menchlichkeit and modern Western society that people living in America have come to expect.

If you are not ready to get married then you are not ready to date.

All people who are dating for shiduchim – no matter how many people they have dated – ought to have someone “outside” their usual circles with whom they can talk about this particular dating experience.

In order to move along in the dating, you will need to be vulnerable at some point. Vulnerability is not weakness; it’s the courage to show up and be seen as you are.

The question is not if a medical condition should be shared but rather when and how to tell.

Dating ideas to help you get to know each other from different angles.

Listen deeply with all your senses, with your gut. Pay attention to more than the words said.

Make sure that what you have is (the beginnings of) real love, not infatuation.