This is a passive-aggressive way to communicate your needs. Your spouse shouldn’t feel pressured to do something to prove their love. Instead, make a request in a non-confrontational and direct way – in a way that connects you, rather in a way that creates a divide. You might say, “I miss spending time with you, […]
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Being perfect is inhuman. We are imperfect humans. And we all do ‘human’ in our very own way. Perfection is boring and lacks personality. If everyone were perfect, things would be less colorful and interesting. People like other people not because they are perfect, but because they are not. Not despite their imperfection, but because
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3 Conversations you might have this week What are three of your most prized possessions? Why do you value these? What comes to mind when you hear the words “Proud to be an American”? What is a favorite BBQ food? 2 Quotes to inspire you “If you are persistent, you will get it. If you
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Productive feelings move you closer to outcomes you want. But productive feelings don’t always feel pleasant. And sometimes unproductive feelings feel quite good. It’s not about positive (or negative) feelings, It’s about productive (and unproductive) feelings. Endless hours on your phone may feel pleasant, but that is not productive. Being out of your comfort zone
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Deliberately choose what gets your attention so that you will become more productive. Know your priorities. Identify the items on your to-do list that are a priority. This will ensure that you are not wasting your energy on something else. Put yourself in charge of your attention. Create blocks of time where you don’t use
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