Some people are fine dating. Everything generally goes great. They are confident, at ease, engaging, open – until the point where the dating turns “serious.” As soon as they sense that they have crossed over into “commitment territory,” all kinds of strange things start happening.
Are you afraid of getting close? Read More »
If he is very interested in your appearance, but he is also deeply engaged in other ways, then take it as a compliment. If then is only into your looks, then …
“I feel all he is interested in are my looks.” Read More »
A girls meets a guy and is super excited about his date. This excitement remains at implausible levels for a few dates… until cracks appear in the image of perfection.
Coping with disappointment in dating: The Rollercoaster syndrome. Read More »
Needless to say, this is a highly sensitive topic. We discuss how dating and pursuit of marriage is likely being impeded by an addiction to porn. The purpose here is to look at the ways that it complicates a person’s path towards forming a healthy relationship.
How addiction to pornography could be affecting your dating. Read More »
Many people find something exhilarating about dating someone particularly smart. They find it easier to respect the person and take them seriously. They find the conversation is more stimulating and engaging. Where it gets complicated is when people also want – or more likely need – other features in their spouse which do not necessarily go hand-in-glove with intellectual brilliance.
I am attracted to smart people, is that a problem? Read More »
More than the exact differences of your religiosity levels is the ‘what’ and ‘who’. What are the differences; are they major or minor? Who are each of you; how flexible are each of you?
We have different religious levels, is this a problem? Read More »
You are only looking for the one person – just one! – and you cannot find someone with all the qualities you are hoping for. Perhaps you find most of the features, but never all of them.
Why can’t I find someone with all the qualities I am looking for? Read More »
Talking about himself a lot is not necessarily a sign of arrogance, or a problem. More important is how he thinks of, and treats, others.
He talks endlessly about himself on the date. Should I be concerned? Read More »
Dating can leave some people feeling nervous, anxious, and worried. This impedes the dating process and makes it harder for both parties. The good news is that it is much less frightening than it seems.
I am painfully quiet and find dating worrying and challenging. Read More »
In a marriage, there will be a healthy exchange of views and even differences of opinion. The unanimity of everything is no great sign of a perfect relationship. Dating is in a sense a mini-marriage, so getting a sense of how you can resolve differences is an important step in the transition towards true couplehood.
Are you frightened by the difference of opinion? Read More »
