Some people tend towards selflessness. Others are naturally more selfish; the needs of others are less important to them. Some may not warm to such a character, and that is fine too. While objectively selflessness is a moral virtue, no one has every virtue and everyone is still capable of having a normal relationship. However, […]
The person I am dating seems to think only about himself. Should I get out? Read More »
You may return from a date with your head spinning? He said he didn’t like his job, is that an issue? She said she doesn’t get along with her mother, should I be concerned? The way he spoke about his time in Yeshiva left me with an uncomfortable feeling; is that anything to go by?
Am I supposed to be concerned about this? Read More »
Some people tend towards selflessness. Others are naturally more selfish; the needs of others are less important to them. Some may not warm to such a character, and that is fine too. While objectively selflessness is a moral virtue, no one has every virtue and everyone is still capable of having a normal relationship. However,
Recognizing narcissistic tendencies Read More »
Put very simply, family matters a lot, but not as much as some other things. It is true that family is an important aspect of marriage and life. But ultimately, you are contemplating marrying an individual. Of course, the influence of the person’s family is a factor. Nonetheless, more important is the person’s own journey
Does family really matter when it comes to a shidduch? Read More »
If you are told that a potential shidduch has a medical condition, it is reasonable for you to be apprehensive. Health is a very important issue. However, it is only one of many important issues married couples have to deal with. There are three sets of questions that you should ask to help you decide
Finding out about a medical condition Read More »
Understanding he difference between “psychological issues” and “psychological illness”.
The person has a psychological illness – should I consider it? Read More »
How to recognize problematic behaviors.
The person I am dating seems to think only about himself. Should I get out? Read More »
The person you are dating says: “I still do not know how I feel about the relationship, but I really like you and want to keep going and see where it takes us”? How do you respond at this point? Some things to consider: Where in the dating process is this request coming; has overall
He says “I am not ready, let’s continue dating”. Should I agree? Read More »
The person you are dating says: “I still do not know how I feel about the relationship, but I really like you and want to keep going and see where it takes us”? How do you respond at this point? Some things to consider: Where in the dating process is this request coming; has overall
He says “I am not ready, let’s continue dating”. Should I agree? Read More »
Some people are more passive, while others are more proactive. Some people are inclined to take more control of a situation, and other people are quite happy to follow. There is nothing wrong with either disposition. However, there are limits to this – and those are as important as anything could possibly be. When aggression
Recognizing controlling tendencies. Read More »
