Too often, we leap to conclusions about someone’s intentions, and our assumptions aren’t always accurate. We tend to interpret their intentions based on how their actions impacted us. If we feel hurt, we assume they intended to hurt us. If we’re embarrassed, we believe they intended to embarrass us. This inclination to assume the worst […]
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When someone accuses you of having bad intentions, it’s natural to feel the urge to defend yourself and your intentions. However, this often doesn’t improve the situation. Instead, try to listen for the underlying feelings and address those first before addressing the accusation of bad intentions. 📌 Begin by validating their feelings: “It seems like
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Life is complex. Relationships are complex. Both of you can be right – from each of your perspectives. We don’t have to diminish the other person’s views and feelings in order to be right. We don’t have to give up anything to hear the other person’s point of view. We each have different information or
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Spending time outdoors is a simple yet powerful way to improve mental and emotional health. Research has shown that regular exposure to nature can reduce stress, improve mood, and increase feelings of well-being. It is highly recommended that everyone spend time outdoors, even if it’s just for a few minutes a day. Taking a walk
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🤣Playfulness is important at any age. Possibly, even more so as an adult. “We don’t stop playing because we grow old; we grow old because we stop playing.” – George Bernard Shaw 📌 1. Playfulness helps to alleviate stress and promote relaxation. Engaging in playful activities allows us to temporarily escape the burdens of adulthood,
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It really may be that your spouse has much more to learn about being in a relationship. your spouse might have had limited exposure to positive relationship role models or may have faced challenging experiences during childhood. These factors can significantly shape their understanding of being in a relationship. That might all be true. However,
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When you have something important to ask of someone, it’s essential to stick to one clear and concise point and avoid “detail overload”. Providing excessive information can overwhelm the other person, causing them to miss or misunderstand the central message. The main point may get lost in the noise, diluting the urgency of your ask.
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In any relationship, differences of perspectives are inevitable due to each person’s unique set of values that they hold dear. For instance, one spouse may prioritize feeding the family only healthy foods for their well-being, while the other cherishes the freedom to explore diverse cuisines and savor life’s pleasures. Both values are valid and deserve
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Effective communication in a relationship involves expressing your feelings and needs in a constructive and understanding manner. 📌One valuable way to approach a sensitive topic is by using the “I feel” statement. 📌For instance, saying, “When you do/did [x], I feel/felt [y]” allows you to express your emotions without placing blame or criticizing your partner.
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Emotional flashbacks are those intense rushes of past emotions that unexpectedly wash over a person in the present. These flashbacks can be triggered by various triggers, like certain sounds, sights, smells, or specific situations, unconsciously linking to past traumas. The mind seems to teleport them back in time, making them feel overwhelmed and out of
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