Ignoring the yukkier parts (like trash cans) can make the task more challenging. Trash cans are often forgotten. Until they can’t be ignored anymore. And then the work is harder. But just because it’s hard, it doesn’t mean that you should neglect it. The longer you wait, the worse it will smell. Setting up a […]
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To ensure that what is important to you stays in good condition, take proper care of it. Neglecting it can result in it falling into disarray or ruin, which can be more costly and time-consuming to fix than preventing deterioration in the first place. Don’t just leave it to chance or the elements. Protect it.
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To avoid feeling overwhelmed and demotivated, it’s important to start with something small and manageable when tackling a big task like preparing for Pesach. Choose one corner, closet, or drawer to clean and organize, and focus on seeing quick results. These early successes will give you the energy and motivation to continue tackling larger areas.
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It can be super tough to hear your partner out during a difficult conversation without cutting in, but it’s worth it. Let your partner get their points across without interrupting. You might have to bite your tongue, but just listening instead of arguing can help you both get on the same page. When your spouse
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Chaos happens. Spills happen. And once they have happened, they have already happened. Yes, there’s a mess and maybe even broken glass. But there’s no use crying or screaming about the spilled popcorn or crushed hamantashen. You can just clean it up and move on. Or even laugh. When we make mistakes, adding insult or
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It’s important to resist the urge to jump straight into solving the issue until you fully understand the problem at hand. Take the time to listen to your partner until they have stated the whole problem. By doing so, you’ll be better equipped to find a solution that truly addresses the issue and meets both
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“There is no limit to the amount of good you can do if you don’t care who gets the credit.” – Ronald Reagan In a healthy marriage, each focuses on doing good things for the other and the relationship without worrying about getting credit for it. Don’t keep score of who does more or who
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When we take our spouse into account, we are being mindful of their needs and desires. When we make an effort to understand our partner’s perspectives and work to meet their needs, we create a relationship where they feel valued, heard, and appreciated. On the other hand, when we don’t take our spouse into account,
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In challenging conversations, it can be difficult for someone to articulate their thoughts and feelings clearly. Therefore, it’s helpful to give your spouse some leeway to express themselves, even if they may not do so perfectly at first. Additionally, it’s crucial to acknowledge that when we are feeling upset or defensive, we may not be
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Most people need some personal space or ‘me-time’ sometimes. Some people need that space more than others. It doesn’t necessarily reflect on the relationship. They need the space and time to reflect, recharge, to refuel. Respect your partner’s need for privacy and don’t take it personally if they want to be alone for a while.
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