“I was thinking of you today – like everyday – and I remembered that when we just got married you used to like to [walk along the water’s edge/ go to the bookstore/whatever]. Let’s plan for that sometime this week.” “I know you like to put sprinkles on your cake, so I bought you some.” […]
Surprise your spouse with something unexpected. Out of nowhere. Read More »
The following is a brief summary of the excellent book Helping her Get Free by Susan Brewster. Some of the points she makes may not come naturally to you as you watch a loved one suffer in an abusive marriage. The most important point is “Do No Harm” and so it is so important that
It can be very confusing to people who feel abused in their marriage, to try and determine if the cause is a dysfunctional relationship that may have some abusive features, a spouse with a mental illness or domestic abuse.
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