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Gevurah is leaving some words unspoken. The real art of conversation is not only to say the right thing at the right place, but to leave unsaid the wrong thing at the tempting moment. You really don’t have to share everything you are thinking or feeling. So, your spouse chose the wrong way to say […]

Gevurah is holding back – if that is how your spouse likes it. Sometimes, you may want to give a gift or do something for your spouse (think: lavish gift or surprise party or public announcement). It may be something that you (and perhaps many others) would like or appreciate, but your spouse doesn’t. Then,

Literal definition: Strength. In other words: Restraint. Channeling. Focus. Discernment. Respect for boundaries. Discipline. Measured. Balanced. Expressions of Gevurah: Gevurah is about setting up boundaries and standards so that the kindness, love, giving and all activities in our lives have focus and direction; this is what yields success. Through Gevurah, we give the correct healthy

Ask your spouse: “What types of giving make you feel loved?” “What words are meaningful? What expressions of love really resonate with you (‘love language’)? What types of gifts do you appreciate?” “What are some things that I gave you – tiny and bigger – that you would like more of? “ Be brave, ask

How do you act with Chesed in your marriage? 1. Unconditionally? Do you give to your spouse – unconditionally … just to make them feel good … on their terms … without expecting anything in return? Do you express appreciation and give compliments – often and freely? The kind that they appreciate, not only the

Chesed is looking for ways to make your spouse happy. Ask yourself: “What can I do today to make my partner happy?” And do it. Do something that your spouse will never know about. Do it just because you love and care about your spouse. Not for reciprocation or out of guilt or obligation. Just

Chesed is loving your spouse in the way they prefer even if you don’t understand it. Hallmark, jewelers, chocolatiers and thousands of other marketers are telling us what gifts we ought to be wanting and giving to show our love. But those may not be what your spouse wants at all. Your spouse is unique

Chesed is giving undivided attention. Chesed can be expressed through the act of giving undivided attention. When we give our full attention to someone, we show them that we value and respect them. This involves setting aside our own distractions, priorities, and preoccupations and focusing solely on the person in front of us. Real attention

Literal definition: Kindness. (Loving Kindness). In other words: Nurturing. Giving. Warmth. Providing someone’s needs. Loving. Expressions of Chesed: Chesed is loving-kindness. Chesed is all about acts of kindness that come from a place of genuine love. It involves nurturing, giving, providing for someone’s needs, and showing warmth and love. These acts can take many different