Networking for a Shidduch
What and when and where to network.
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Dating Insights (advocates)
What does it mean when a Bochur wears a white shirt?
A white button-down shirt … or a colored T shirt … or a colored button-down shirt … or whatever. All you know is that person is wearing a white shirt. Right now. People are so much more complex than their clothing. The shirt does not necessarily say anything about personality, yiras shamayim, etc. In today’s
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An Unbiased Third Party
The importance of determining together who to call in as an unbiased third party.
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Who you talk to during dating can make a difference
Talking about shidduchim can get very personal and intimate. That’s why you need a trusted ‘outsider’ to speak to.
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“Pressure-Cooker” Shidduch Time
as posted on COLlive.com Yossi and Leah Yossi had summer plans that he was very excited about. First, he would spend 5 weeks as head counselor in a Gan Yisroel and then a few weeks of traveling to help Shluchim in some farflung, exotic destinations. He had worked out all the details months ago. He
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I hear he’s a nice guy, but has rough edges.
Q: I hear he’s a nice guy and has similar values and goals as my daughter, but he has rough edges. She’s so sensitive and sweet. Someone like that will just run all over her. So the question is should I even let her meet him at all? A: Firstly, what is meant by ‘rough
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The right person to marry will depend almost totally on who you are
During shiduchim, you are seeking a match for you. If you don’t really know who you are, you may end up with a fine person – but not the best match for you. Before you bring someone into your life, it is important to figure out what your life is all about. What are your values? What
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List of ‘can’t stand’s
Make a (short) list of personality traits that really bug you. Yeah, one day you’ll work on yourself so they don’t bug you all that much. But for now, you really don’t like being around people who do that often. Some examples might be: tries to seem more important than he really is; works too
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If looks are important to you, then looks are important to you.
OK, we all are human. And some of us have strong desires for some things that others might call superficial – like beauty and appearance. It may not be the best part of who you are, but it is indeed a part of who you are. And if that is who you are and those are your
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The difference between Personality & Character. Its important to know the difference
Leah is fun to be with, great sense of humor, and knows how to laugh through the challenges that come her way. She’s confident and super friendly and has lots of friends. But what is she really like? Is she reliable and responsible? Does she have integrity? Is she kind? What does she feel is
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