Personal Growth

On a date, be other-conscious, not self- conscious

There are only a certain number of brain cells you can use during a date.  Being self-conscious limits your ability to express yourself fully.  It also limits your ability to be fully aware. If you are using too many brain cells trying to impress or being self conscious, you really can’t get to know the other person. […]

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If looks are important to you, then looks are important to you.

OK, we all are human. And some of us have strong desires for some things that others might call superficial – like beauty and appearance. It may not be the best part of who you are, but it is indeed a part of who you are.  And if that is who you are and those are your

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A marriage is only as healthy as the least healthy person

No marriage can ever be healthier than the emotional health of the least healthy partner. What is emotional health?  A well-constructed sense of self.   It means knowing yourself well and feeling good about yourself. Marriage doesn’t make you feel better about yourself. If someone is a negative, unhappy person before marriage,  they will be

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