These words belittle the other person. If they were indeed being petty, then these words won’t help the situation. If their reaction to something was larger than most people might have responded, maybe it triggered something in them. Again, these words won’t help. Instead, don’t say anything. Or address their concern. No need to evaluate […]
Words to Avoid: “You’re so petty.” Read More »
When we blame others, we may experience a brief instant of relief. It feels better to no longer be in the crosshairs, the target of criticism, punishment, or harm. And it can help us avoid questioning our own self-worth and worthiness. In the short term. But then, come feelings of guilt and regret and possibly
If you blame other people for your mistakes, you give away your chances to learn. Read More »
“Assuming” is accepting something as true – without proof. It is deciding a thought you are having is a fact – when you don’t have all the information. Assumptions can be quite detrimental – especially when you make choices and decisions based on little more than a good (or not so good) guess. Too often,
Assumptions often lead to poor decisions. Read More »
