The phrase “I think this is where we differ…” is a great way to acknowledge a disagreement without escalating conflict. It keeps the conversation respectful, showing that you recognize and respect the other person’s perspective while expressing your own. It’s a softer, more thoughtful approach to differences, opening the door for dialogue rather than argument. […]
Words To Use: “I think this is where we differ…” Read More »
When we run into differences or difficult situations, we often fall into either/or thinking: “Either your way or my way,” “Either do this or do that. Instead, look for the AND. Seek ways to incorporate multiple perspectives, needs, or solutions into the situation. Rather than feeling forced to choose between two opposing options, find a
Beyond “Either/Or”: The Power Of “And”. Read More »
A year of understanding and being understood. A year of peace and endless possibilities. A year of clarity and the courage to act. A year of healing and renewed hope. A year of stability with just the right touch of adventure. And may all the changes that happen this year bring revealed blessings.
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Before Rosh Hashanah, many send greetings, show appreciation, and ask for forgiveness. You may expect or hope for this from those you’ve helped or who may have hurt you. But sometimes, those messages don’t come, or they aren’t quite what you hoped for. Just let it go—don’t stress over it. Try to understand. Some people
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Sometimes, it may seem like people can’t handle “brutal honesty,” and it can be tempting to think, “It’s not my problem if they don’t want to hear the truth.” However, true honesty isn’t just about laying down the facts; it’s also about how you communicate them. When aiming for honest communication, focus on both what
Brutal honesty is usually more brutal than honest. Read More »
Just because you feel very strongly about your opinions doesn’t make them facts. When discussing your views, present them as opinions, not as indisputable facts. All too often, we might present our perspectives as facts. To avoid this, try framing your opinions more openly: This approach acknowledges that opinions are flexible and personal, while facts are
Share opinions as opinions, not facts. Read More »
So you’ve noticed together that you have a harmful pattern such as interrupting each other during conversations. You’ve spoken about it and want to work on it. Agree on a way to gently remind each other when you slip back into it. For example, you might use a specific phrase or signal like, “Let’s remember
Use gentle reminders to navigate bad patterns together. Read More »
It may be hard to swallow your pride and apologize, but it’s also hard to live in a disconnected relationship. Choose your hard. Choosing to work through the discomfort of apologizing is the right way to respond when you’ve wronged someone.– For you, it’s an opportunity for personal growth and integrity.– For your spouse, it
It may be hard to apologize, apologize anyway. Read More »
It can be tough to hear your spouse bring up things they wish you’d do differently. If you avoid these conversations or get defensive, you miss out on chances to grow as a person and as a couple. This can really strain your relationship. Instead, try to be open to what your spouse is saying.
Embrace feedback for a stronger relationship. Read More »
As we prepare for the upcoming Tishrei holidays, it’s important to focus not only on the spiritual aspects like Tehillim, added prayers, and Teshuva, but also on the practical side of things. Tishrei brings with it meals, guests, budgets, and hosting responsibilities, all of which require careful thought and planning. Balancing both the spiritual and
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