For some of us, making a decision can be overwhelming: Should I choose A or B? We deliberate and ruminate and then we don’t make any decision at all. We choose neither A or B. Often, we do this because as long as no decision has been made, the potential of the outcome remains. But […]
Not making a decision – is a decision you are making. Read More »
Feeling doubt is human enough. Letting it stop you from moving forward is a choice you are making. How to overcome self-doubt: •Self Distancing. Taking on the persona of someone more confident can help you acknowledge the challenges you face without letting them completely take you over. Imagine how someone you admire would act in
Letting doubt stop you is a choice you are making. Read More »
What decision would you make if you knew there wasn’t a wrong one? Often, anxiety makes decision-making all the harder is by tricking us into believing that there will be a right choice and a wrong one, a good one and a bad one. If you are feeling really stuck between two decisions, it’s very
Just because there are choices doesn’t mean there is a wrong one. Read More »
Is there an important change that you know you ought to be making but can’t get yourself to actually do (like quitting a mind-numbing job or ending a toxic friendship)? Chances are that you are not taking action because the path of inaction is less frightening because it feels more familiar. But, this inaction is
Take a chance on yourself. Read More »
People will respect you and your ‘yes’ when you don’t give a ‘yes’ so freely. Each day will present you with tons of opportunities, but you must say ‘No’ to most of them to use your time effectively and live a more balanced life. Once you start saying ‘No’ to things that may be wonderful
Don’t always say “Yes”. Read More »
We design 90% of our life through the choices and tradeoffs we make. It is the word, “tradeoff”, that is so empowering. Essentially, we are in control by trading one thing for another thing. If we do not like where our lives are headed, we need to consider what are we willing to trade to
Life is a series of choices and tradeoffs. Read More »
The question of whether to consider dating or marrying someone who has a psychological problem is one of the most difficult relationship matters. The consequences could be enormous, and there is also a great deal of confusion and fear surrounding this issue. The purpose of this article is to offer some clarity to help you to make a thoughtful decision as to what is in your best interest.
The person has a psychological illness – should I consider it? Read More »
Where is the request to continue the dating process coming from? Has overall compatibility been established? What do they say they need clarity on?
Especially important Is to be clear between the two of you as to what kind of clarity is to be gained during the next dates.
Set a goal and a timeframe. Not an ultimatum. Don’t pressure.
Sometimes, people get stuck. It is worthwhile to get professional support in making a decision.
He says “I am not ready, let’s continue dating”. Should I agree? Read More »
