August 2019

Do right by your spouse. And then your spouse won’t be thinking in terms of their rights.

No rights. Just responsibilities or obligations to each other. The obligation to respect and care for each other – physically and emotionally. When each of the couple cares for and respects each other, then the issue of rights falls moot. Both are quite happy in the relationship. Don’t look to see that your rights are

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Privacy and a ‘we’ mentality. There can/ ought to be both.

To be clear, a WE mentality does not mean that you get to know everything about your spouse. There are many things that can remain private. –Private, not secret.– Conversations between friends, emails, mistakes, past history, what each did during the day. When there is trust, neither feels the need to know. A WE mentality

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