Literal definition: Strength. In other words: Restraint. Channeling. Focus. Discernment. Respect for boundaries. Discipline. Measured. Balanced. Expressions of Gevurah: Gevurah is about setting up boundaries and standards so that the kindness, love, giving and all activities in our lives have focus and direction; this is what yields success. Through Gevurah, we give the correct healthy […]
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Ask your spouse: “What types of giving make you feel loved?” “What words are meaningful? What expressions of love really resonate with you (‘love language’)? What types of gifts do you appreciate?” “What are some things that I gave you – tiny and bigger – that you would like more of? “ Be brave, ask
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How do you act with Chesed in your marriage? 1. Unconditionally? Do you give to your spouse – unconditionally … just to make them feel good … on their terms … without expecting anything in return? Do you express appreciation and give compliments – often and freely? The kind that they appreciate, not only the
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Chesed is looking for ways to make your spouse happy. Ask yourself: “What can I do today to make my partner happy?” And do it. Do something that your spouse will never know about. Do it just because you love and care about your spouse. Not for reciprocation or out of guilt or obligation. Just
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Chesed is loving your spouse in the way they prefer even if you don’t understand it. Hallmark, jewelers, chocolatiers and thousands of other marketers are telling us what gifts we ought to be wanting and giving to show our love. But those may not be what your spouse wants at all. Your spouse is unique
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Chesed is giving undivided attention. Chesed can be expressed through the act of giving undivided attention. When we give our full attention to someone, we show them that we value and respect them. This involves setting aside our own distractions, priorities, and preoccupations and focusing solely on the person in front of us. Real attention
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Literal definition: Kindness. (Loving Kindness). In other words: Nurturing. Giving. Warmth. Providing someone’s needs. Loving. Expressions of Chesed: Chesed is loving-kindness. Chesed is all about acts of kindness that come from a place of genuine love. It involves nurturing, giving, providing for someone’s needs, and showing warmth and love. These acts can take many different
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