2 Getting to Know Each Other

Whatever your preference, explain it upfront to the shadchen who should then share the preferred protocol so there are no misunderstandings or awkward moments.

Make your small talk personal to start getting to know each other – right from the first date.

The whole point of dating is to get to know the other person – who they really are, beyond what they do and what they like. That should be focus of your conversations.

It’s not only what you ask about, it is also how you word the questions.

It’s only silence. It’s your own thoughts and feelings about that silence that might make it awkward.

The more trust and comfort with each other, the quicker you get to know each other to determine the likelihood of compatibility for a successful marriage.

When getting to know each other, you really want to make sure that you both understand who the other is, not only the words they say.

Whatever your preference, let the shadchen know so it can be relayed to the other person.

What to do when you come home from the date.

There are so many reasons why a first date may not go so well. Some thoughts on the topic.