3 Conversations you might have this week What is something you got from your father? When are you the most “you”? If you had a pile of lemons what would you make from it? 2 Quotes to inspire you “Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from […]
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[2 part series.] Money is the number one issue married couples fight about. When couples talk about money, there’s often frustration and tension. In these talks, Yael Trusch shares some important mindsets and tools to make those conversations easier and more productive.
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“Think and Thank”. These are the words on Sir Moses Montefiore’s coat of arms. He was a wealthy philanthropist and activist for causes in Eretz Yisrael and other places in the 1800s (think: Yemin Moshe, Ohel Moshe, Mishkenot Sha’ananim and much more). He lived by the tenet of “Think of all the wonderful things you
Do you believe that things are true just because they ‘feel’ true? Do you feel this way? “My problems are too big to solve”, “I feel afraid, so I must be in a dangerous situation”, “I am not in the mood to do anything, I may as well stay in bed”. Those are emotions doing
Just because it feels true, does not mean that it is true. Read More »
These words are usually said when there is a conflict and the speaker thinks that they are right and the other is wrong. The thing is: just because the other person has a different perspective, it doesn’t mean that it is wrong. It’s just different, not necessarily wrong. Instead, look to resolve the conflict. Additionally,
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Honestly, do you like everyone? Then why are you worried about everyone liking you? It’s not possible that everyone will like you. There’s nothing wrong with you just because someone doesn’t like you. Trying to make everyone happy is impossible. What is most important is if you like yourself. Focus your energy there, and never
Not everyone will like you and that’s OK. Read More »
3 Conversations you might have this week Who is someone from whom you should ask forgiveness? What is it that you did? How might you word the request for forgiveness? What is something that money can’t buy for which you are grateful? Would you rather buy a super comfy couch (or another piece of furniture)
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There is so much power in Shared Thinking. 1. Faster. You can come to powerful ideas faster together. Each of you can take a part to work through. 2. More Innovative. Each of you have unique experiences and perspectives that you bring to the issue. Your results will be richer than if you go at
The idea is not to think alike, but to think together. Read More »
First, there is the event that happened (or something you are thinking will happen) which then triggers some thoughts which then feed your consequent behavior.It’s ABC. A. There is the ACTIVITATING EVENTB. which activates your BELIEFS AND EMOTIONS about the eventC. which then activates some CONSEQUENCE such as your feelings and/or consequent behaviors. For example,Your
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This question demonstrates that you are concerned about your spouse’s well-being and you are offering to take steps to help improve their mood or day. This question also reveals your ability to empathize with your partner and shows your nurturing side. (Being on either side of that question is powerful for your relationship.)
Words to Use: “How can I make your day better?” Read More »
