This phrase can shut down a conversation before it even starts. It dismisses the importance of the topic and can make your partner feel like their concerns are invalid or unimportant. It’s a quick way to make the other person feel unheard, and that can lead to frustration and emotional distance. Instead of blocking the […]
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Devora Krasnianski speaks with Lisa Twerski, LCSW, about her newly released book, Me & You – What I Wish I Knew: A Marriage Manual for the Frum Community.
This interview offers an insightful and practical conversation about building and deepening the marriage relationship, with guidance relevant to couples at any stage.
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At the heart of every lasting relationship is the ability to grow — individually and together. And growth doesn’t happen in a vacuum. It often happens through feedback — offered with love, received with openness. Real growth is sparked by reflection, courage, and connection. It happens when we are willing to hold up a mirror
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Every marriage brings together two unique individuals—which means there will be differences. No matter how similar you are, there will always be gaps in personality, preferences, values, and approaches. That’s not a flaw in your relationship; it’s a feature of it. The goal isn’t to erase the differences, but to understand and work with them.
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Asking for help doesn’t make you weak — it makes you human. And more than that, it creates space for connection, partnership, and mutual trust. You don’t have to carry everything on your own. Letting your spouse in—whether it’s for practical help or emotional support—can deepen the relationship and remind both of you that you’re
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Appreciation is one of the quiet superpowers of a strong relationship. A kind word, a thoughtful thank you, a moment of genuine praise—it doesn’t take much, but it can mean everything. It helps us feel seen. Valued. Connected. Encouraged. The more we notice and express the good in each other, the more we reinforce the
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Words matter. The way we say things can either open doors or build walls in our relationships. This edition shares practical tips on words to use—and avoid—that reduce tension, invite understanding, and help conversations flow more smoothly. It offers fresh alternatives and reminders to keep connection alive. Be sure to revisit Better Words #1 for
These five words can shift the whole tone of a conversation. They show self-awareness. Accountability. And a willingness to repair.They tell your partner: I see how my actions—or inactions—affected you, and I’m not going to brush it off. 💬 “That wasn’t fair of me. I can see how that landed.”💬 “You’re right—I didn’t handle that
Words to Use: “That wasn’t fair of me.” Read More »
This phrase often comes across as dismissive, passive, and reluctant. It can make the other person feel like their perspective isn’t worthy of real engagement or respect. It’s a way of brushing off their feelings or opinions without truly addressing them. Instead of shutting down the conversation with this phrase, try showing curiosity and a
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Playfulness isn’t just for kids—it’s a key ingredient in keeping a marriage lively, connected, and resilient. When couples laugh together, try new things, or share light, spontaneous moments, it strengthens their bond in quiet but powerful ways. Playfulness invites joy, eases tension, and helps partners feel seen and safe with one another. And the best
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