Will He Be a Good Husband for Me?
You are dating to learn more if he will be a good husband for you, not just a fun friend.
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November 2020
Will She Be a Good Wife for Me?
You are dating to learn more if she will be a good wife for you, not just a fun friend.
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Work Through Your Concerns
You have a concern, work through it. Do not dismiss the shiduch on the false notion ‘if it is meant, it shouldn’t be so hard’.
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Not Sure of My Feelings
Try to work through your thoughts and feelings with an objective third party, like your mashpia or coach.
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Make it comfortable for the other to open up
Some topics may be uncomfortable to talk about. Try to make it comfortable for the other to share.
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Sharing Private Information
What to share… when to share … how to share…
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How Long Should First Dates Be?
Whatever your preference, explain it upfront to the shadchen who should then share the preferred protocol so there are no misunderstandings or awkward moments.
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Powerful Small Talk for Dating
Make your small talk personal to start getting to know each other – right from the first date.
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What to Talk About on First Few Dates
The whole point of dating is to get to know the other person – who they really are, beyond what they do and what they like. That should be focus of your conversations.
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Ask Good Questions
It’s not only what you ask about, it is also how you word the questions.
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